Oddfellows Friendship Month

United Kingdom

About

Oddfellows Friendship Month is observed throughout September as a warm celebration of friendship, fellowship, and the positive impact of community connections. Inspired by the values of the Oddfellows, the month highlights the importance of kindness, companionship, and supporting one another through life’s joys and challenges.

Throughout September, people are encouraged to make time for friends, welcome new connections, and take part in activities that bring communities together. Whether through a thoughtful message, a shared meal, volunteering, or simply spending quality time with someone, Oddfellows Friendship Month offers a meaningful reminder that friendship can enrich our lives and help create a more caring, connected world.

History

Oddfellows Friendship Month is observed throughout September as a celebration of companionship, mutual support, and community involvement associated with the Oddfellows movement. Its roots lie in the long history of friendly societies—member-supported organizations that developed in Britain to provide financial assistance, fellowship, and practical help before modern welfare systems were widely available. The Independent Order of Oddfellows grew from this tradition, with organized branches emerging in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries and the Manchester Unity of Oddfellows being established in England in 1810.

Historically, Oddfellows lodges offered more than social gatherings. Members contributed to shared funds that could assist people during illness, unemployment, bereavement, or other hardships. Lodge meetings also created dependable social networks, particularly for working people who might otherwise have had limited access to formal support. The movement’s emphasis on friendship, mutual aid, and charitable conduct helped shape its identity and provided the historical foundation for the themes highlighted during Friendship Month.

Over time, improvements in public healthcare, social insurance, and welfare services changed the practical role of friendly societies. Oddfellows nevertheless continued to promote fellowship and community service, adapting their activities to include social events, volunteering, fundraising, and support for local causes. Friendship Month reflects this modern development: it presents the organization’s historic principles in a form suited to contemporary life, encouraging people to maintain meaningful connections and to recognize the value of belonging to a supportive community.

Culturally, the observance emphasizes friendship as an active social virtue rather than merely a personal relationship. It draws attention to the ways companionship can reduce isolation, strengthen resilience, and encourage people to help others. By linking present-day activities with the Oddfellows’ tradition of mutual assistance, September provides an opportunity to celebrate both the organization’s historical legacy and the continuing importance of community-minded friendship.

Timeline

1819
Thomas Wildey and several associates organized Washington Lodge No. 1 in Baltimore, Maryland, establishing the first Odd Fellows lodge in the United States.
1821
American Odd Fellows lodges formed the Grand Lodge of the United States, marking their organizational independence from the English Odd Fellows bodies.
1851
The Sovereign Grand Lodge instituted the Rebekah Degree, extending formal Odd Fellows membership opportunities to women.
1868
The first Rebekah Lodge was established, providing a lodge structure for the Rebekah Degree within the Independent Order of Odd Fellows.

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